You know life is a bunch of decisions we make every day and trust me, no decision is big or small, every decision we make counts, be it what you want to wear on that day or even what you choose to eat, which restaurant to go for a date, to the friends we choose to keep close or even the job to do.

Look at your life from when you were younger, all the decisions you made or the decisions your parents made for you, they still affect you in one way or another, for example; the schools you went to determine your social circle up to date. But as you took up the responsibility of your own decision making , you realize that at every time you are faced with a choice to make, there is always that inner voice telling you what to do already, but we often ignore it and concentrate on advice from someone else or we just over think.

So in most cases you find yourself saying, “I wish I had done this or that”, the most tricky part is your gut never lets you down, you know what you want to do but because of anxiety and little faith you have in yourself ,you choose to do something else maybe considering the advice from other people and the one thing we never realize , when someone gives you advise on anything, they consider their personal feelings attached to that subject or how they would be affected by the decision you make, so they will persuade you to do as they wish , of course with the best argument ever.

So my dear friends don’t be deceived that because someone loves you so much or has a lot of knowledge in a particular field that what they have to say Is the ultimatum? HELL NO!

For every decision you have to make , remember you know yourself better than anyone and the answer is within you. Don’t forget to comment.